My goodness. Christmas has been exhausting. Even exhilarating leads to exhausting after a while. Emotions have been running high, as they are wont to do in the madness that is the holiday season. Queenie has been involved in being quite responsible during “the season,” following the artist’s life, and in such my bliss I suppose, but having attained a certain age it just plain gets down to the bone. I think I may have launched my book tour, and may I say that my precious little project has been very well received, and for that I am grateful. It was the strangest thing, when I started this Heart Project, that I never feared of tackling too much, and I totally believed in it from the very first thought of it. Things fell into place so easily when I finally got the right direction on it that it was downright amazing. When it was going to be a calendar, (my first conception), it just wouldn’t come together. Too this, too that, not happening, bad communications….. dead ends. But from the moment I switched my concept to a book – Shazam! The magic just tripped over itself to get to me. Not that it didn’t involve steady work, dedication, and following up and tending to the birth, but it was just that – a pregnancy – and I birthed myself a little book. Imagine that – a mother, at my age! The tabloids will have a feast with this one. Oh the pity – I’m afraid Queenie is still off their radar.
It appears that Timing, along with Location, really are part of the equation of success, but nothing happens without believing in what you are doing. I’ve just seen it happen, been a part of it, and it was a marvelous experience. Now, what can I do next? What do I want to do next? Because, evidently I’m somehow successful in pulling off the things I really want to do – the ones I believe in……..in certain circumstances.
So here comes the question that percolates to the pondering parts of my brain – why couldn’t I “make” it work when it came to the business of my heart? I obviously know that the most pertinent part of the situation is that it involved another person – a soul with just as much individuality as mine, and as much baggage brought to the check-in desk. Certain parts of me are powerful, but I couldn’t do diddly with the outcome on that one. Nor would I ever want to control another person. And with what did, or didn’t happen in considering what I desired in my heartspace, the “lesson” I’m dealing with right now is learning how to surrender to that – to accept it – that it wasn’t to be. And feel at peace about it. Let me tell you it’s a concept that’s easier considered than actually experienced. I see it – I know it – I understand it – I honor even the NEED for it, (and I get really on point when it comes to the subject of Need.) I recognize that it is what has to be, (present tense), and I am indeed walking my talk, even if it feels more so at times that I am crawling it. No matter I guess, it’s forward motion, and for some of us, all of us, any forward motion is encouraged and gratefully accepted. What a trip.
It’s an obvious corollary that my heart’s wish (or was it a Fantasy) was just not going to work, (or was better not to), and therefore that’s exactly why it didn’t – somewhat like that calendar. However, not doing the calendar didn’t hurt nearly as much, or else it’s just a pale comparison to begin with, but the only one I’ve got to illustrate my current enlightenment mode. Of course I didn’t have nearly as much invested in the calendar, and I was able to let it go rapidly, and then the right thing filled the plate. What if I’d been as stubborn about “Doing A Calendar” as I was with keeping my heart on that same highway for so long, and not considering other destinations? I still have lots of conflicts about so many aspects of that journey, and it’s my nature to try to dissect so much of behavior and events. It seems to have led to head-slamming, which I suppose is why I finally considered some other path, even if I had to walk it alone. I’m still making peace with Alone, but getting more familiar with it, maybe even friendly. Not that I’ve shied away from major life living while being ALONE, and doing quite fine with it, thank you very much, but what I refer to is an aloneness of the Heart, after a meaningful pairing that’s been rent, and that’s a very different critter than the Ego free, Life loving seeker of dreams and adventure that defines who we really are, (or who I am, anyway), and it is something to be dealt with – until it isn’t anymore. It is my quest however, to deal with it in such a way as to understand why it happened like it did, in order to LEARN and NOT DO THAT AGAIN. Ouch.
BUT – I have to add that learning from this experience is the fodder that found itself expressed in my book, and I am very proud of what I created. It’s the journey, stupid.
So now we journey from 2009 into entirely different digits. 2010 – it just looks weird to me. I’m getting some years on me, and they’re beginning to tell (on me), and time is passing. Yet I read today in some uplifting words that Time is our friend, and we have all we need. Well, I don’t know about that….. I suppose Time will tell, right? Time is one hell of a concept, worthy of too many pages here, and I’ve already rattled on. I just wanted to say something else before 2010 actually arrives, and be present, and make a difference, and say…. Thank You.
I have so many wonderful things in my life. I am grateful. Thank YOU who are reading these words. I hope it makes a difference.
Happy New Year. Happy New LIfe.